{"id":1905,"date":"2015-06-10T09:14:45","date_gmt":"2015-06-10T09:14:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/?p=1905"},"modified":"2018-12-27T06:23:42","modified_gmt":"2018-12-27T06:23:42","slug":"online-harrasment-vs-real-life-discrimination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/online-harrasment-vs-real-life-discrimination\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Online Harassment Worse than Real-life Discrimination?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Online gaming was supposed to be about knowing your friends  and opponents and besting them through sheer tenacity and skills. Online social  networks were supposed to be about uniting people all over the world and  promoting tolerance. Instead, we need to look at the facts &#8211; It is said that  about 20% of the youth are cyberbullied during the course of their lives. And  as to how your garden-variety bullying is doing in the USA alone, picture this  \u2013 there&rsquo;s 2.7 million schoolyard bullies in a population of 320 million people.  When the conversation shifts to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/racial-discrimination-in-universities\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>racial  discrimination<\/strong><\/a>, the level of human depravity and cruelty hits a  stratospheric high, reinforcing the view that technological progress and more opportunities  have not translated into a more tolerant polity at home and abroad.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/children-miss-school1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/children-miss-school1.jpg\" alt=\"Children Miss School\" title=\"Children Miss School\" width=\"600\" height=\"390\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1906\" \/><\/a><br \/><strong>Source: <\/strong>National Education Association.<\/p>\n<p>These shocking statistics reinforce that age-old observation  about human nature, that it rarely lets everyone live and let live. Egoes,  power balance, dictatorial tendencies, and overall aggressiveness are bound to  rear their ugly head sooner or later. That dark aspect of human nature gives  rise to harassment, mocking, bullying and stereotyping, with subjugation or  sadistic pleasure a common goal amongst the abusers.<\/p>\n<p>Mean behavior is a fact of life. Despite all the awareness  and measures that are taken to curb it, it seems that man&rsquo;s inhumanity to man  goes on unabated. And its there, affecting home, schools, workplace, streets,  online channels, and refuses to go away.<\/p>\n<p>Whether the form of harassment is face to face or over the  internet, this is an issue that continues to fester and needs to be addressed.<\/p>\n<h2>Real-life Discrimination<\/h2>\n<p>There are people who call in sick on a workday or a school  day, just to avoid a particularly noxious person in their daily life. There are  people who are under severe stress, because they know they will be unfairly  singled out and ostracized. These are the effects of someone facing real-life  discrimination.<\/p>\n<p>Examples of real-life discrimination can be usually  classified into these categories:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Physical \u2013 <\/strong>any  sort of physical attack such as hitting, punching, kicking, spitting, etc.  Taking someone&rsquo;s belongings away also falls into this category.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Verbal \u2013 <\/strong>making  racist, homophobic, sexist jokes, calling names, and abusing someone with  offensive remarks are all signs of verbal discrimination.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Indirect \u2013 <\/strong>Ever  heard the term &lsquo;taking behind someone&rsquo;s back?&rsquo; Backbiting, spreading stories  and malicious rumors about someone, all these fall into indirect bias.<\/p>\n<h2>Online Harassment \u2013 Digital or Cyber  Bullying<\/h2>\n<p>With the influx of modern-day communication tools and social  networks in our everyday lives, people are bound to face strangers that get  high on making others miserable over the internet. Even though cyberbullying  might not involve face-to-face communication, it is no less harrowing and  cringe-worthy than the former.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Online-Harassment.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Online-Harassment.jpg\" alt=\"Online Harassment\" title=\"Online Harassment\" width=\"600\" height=\"339\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1907\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Online-Harassment.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Online-Harassment-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Online-Harassment-500x282.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Surveys reveal that the most common forms of cyber bullying  are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Through Text messaging<\/li>\n<li>Picture\/Video clip bullying<\/li>\n<li>Abusive emails<\/li>\n<li>Bullying chat-rooms<\/li>\n<li>In social media<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Which is Worse? Online Bullying or Real-life Discrimination?<\/h2>\n<p>Due to the &lsquo;newness&rsquo; of digital platforms and their  increased use in today&rsquo;s life, the jury is still out on how much of an effect  cyber bullying is having on today&rsquo;s generations. However, it is surmised that  upto 20% of high school going kids have encountered an instance of online  abuse, and the number is poised to grow as smartphone adoption rates climb  higher.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Real-life-Discrimination.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Real-life-Discrimination.jpg\" alt=\"Real Life Discrimination\" title=\"Real Life Discrimination\" width=\"600\" height=\"455\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1908\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Real-life-Discrimination.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Real-life-Discrimination-300x228.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Real-life-Discrimination-394x300.jpg 394w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The important thing to consider here is that only the &lsquo;venue&rsquo; of  bullying has changed if you put cyber bullying and real life bullying side by  side. The effects from both on the human psyche is, however, equally wounding.  As we speak, policy makers and educators are beginning to realize that these  two distinct forms of bullying may not be nipped with a &lsquo;one-size-fits-all&rsquo;  approach. Both require a different approach to deal with.<\/p>\n<p>Traditional bullying and discrimination in a school or  workplace setting seems to take the cake when it comes to the worst sort of  discrimination. Here is how endemic bullying is in real-life and how it affects  people:<\/p>\n<p>Schools are supposed to be places that contribute towards positive intellectual and emotional development of the children. The reality, as they say, is something else entirely.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Bullying-In-American-Schools.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Bullying-In-American-Schools.gif\" alt=\"Bullying In American Schools\" title=\"Bullying In American Schools\" width=\"600\" height=\"602\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1920\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Workplaces, where people spend at least half of their lifespans, are no strangers when it comes to bullying and harassment.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Bullying-at-the-Workplace.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Bullying-at-the-Workplace.gif\" alt=\"Bullying at the Workplace\" title=\"Bullying at the Workplace\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1921\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Is education the answer? Is the inculcation of ethical  values from a younger age the solution to this menace? Surveys reveal that the  nature of society plays a formative role in shaping the attitudes towards those  who are weak, different and hesitant to defend themselves from abusers. We are  nowhere near to finding a solution for this menace. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Online gaming was supposed to be about knowing your friends and opponents and besting them through sheer tenacity and skills. Online social networks were supposed to be about uniting people all over the world and promoting tolerance. Instead, we need to look at the facts &#8211; It is said that about 20% of the youth [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3594,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[328],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hot-and-trending"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1905"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4371,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905\/revisions\/4371"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3594"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.surveycrest.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}